<p>In this research, the Theory of the Four Sexual Holons was taken as the main conceptual reference, since it offers a comprehensive approach to the study of human sexuality. There were chosen 140 participants who had a stable partner for a 5 year period or more, as stable relationships are a privileged space for manifestations of sexuality, especially for a gender analysis. The quantitative study chose the sexual behavior variable as an expression of sexuality configurations. The information was collected with a questionnaire and the data obtained were processed in the statistical program IBM SPSS Statistics. The sexual behavior of the participants is characterized by: ties of husband / wife and boyfriend / girlfriend with permanent cohabitation; heterosexual ties, presence of vaginal intercourse, oral-genital practices, erotic caresses and kisses, fantasies and sexual games; existence of little tendency to search for offspring, despite having little sexual protection; favorable conflict resolution strategies. Significant differences between men and women appeared in the gender and erotic holones, with shown evidence of patriarchal gender roles. All behaviors were reported with high satisfaction.</p>