<p><em>This essay is a UADE research team’s reflection about gender deconstruction and care practices. This function was limited in the Patriarchal era to the female gender. Despite the great transformations in the 21<sup>st</sup> century regarding gender deconstruction, the role of maternal grandmothers supports the female stereotypes of the Patriarchal era.</em><em>The place of care for people granted women a space of power, which although subaltern to that of men, the female gender in alliance with the male resists losing. It is the daughters, identified with their own mothers, who sue grandmothers for the care of their children</em></p>